[amdavadis4ever] The emotionality of rationality

 

The emotional of rationality! Because our society is living in the mind, we tend to hide our emotions as dust is hidden under a carpet. To promote that humans are "rational" beings may be a lie. In the "office" world we may act rational but not in "real Life." For instance, we may know that death will arrive sooner or later. If a son dies before the father, we may label that as "untimely" or "premature." Our minds have an expected pattern. If the father dies before the son, even though the pattern has been respected, even though the son knows the father will die first; when the day comes for the father to depart, the son may break down emotionally. Where is the "rationality" then?   Isn't death natural?  The solution may be in taking refuge in the "future." A religion may talk about the "future." "Now" does not matter. The "future" is important. Many things could happen to a person "now" but forget about it.  This behavior closes the capacity to feel.  It is the perfect scenario to put up the "tough" face despite living with a melting heart. In the opposite side, a "self-help book" may acknowledge our emotional side. "It is OK to express how you feel," nevertheless; the trauma created is unexplored. If a child is aware that his father has passed away, we could tell him: "God has called your daddy." Frustration and anger may develop in that child for that idea of God, but our belief may be that we are helping him to deal with his pain. We are incapable of explaining that death is as natural as living and death can arrive to anyone at any time. Because "you" are here now, "you" will not be. Simple, rational. Give him a hug with empathy, allowing him to feel support. That is compassion when it is no rehearsed. As everything in Life, every experience will go away, and we will move on, we will evolve… unless we decide to keep that experience as a trauma. That is my recent discovery about Life: Be there emotionally, allow the inner child to express, but at the same time, be there rationally, allowing the inner parent to hold the child. Both archetypes are inside us. One more thing: The only time that matters is the "now." The past or the future are for the mind. To be in the "now" means to be "out of the mind." For that, we may embrace "what is" without looking for explanations or pretty beliefs to cover things up…. We may express our feelings and compassion "now," in that way; rationality embraces emotionality and both together may heal and integrate into the Totality. As individuals we can only see biased fragments of the Totality, that distortion creates the trauma of the "I." Thus, integration into the Totality is how the "I" is healed, for it means to see the Ocean rather than segmenting it and focusing only on a drop of it.

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Posted by: Satya <worldprince1@yahoo.com>

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