Smita Pani: Re: [World Malayali Club] Couples from Hell [1 Attachment]

Wednesday, 10 February 2016

Re: [World Malayali Club] Couples from Hell [1 Attachment]

Dear fellow-Malayalis

"Much thinking hath made him mad" is a saying I came across in school.

So with the article under reply.  

It is NOT TRUE that, as proclaimed:-

"This   is what is happening in your love-relationships: somebody is a   prostitute, somebody is a taxi driver. It is a bargain, it is   tit-for-tat. It is continuous conflict, and you are in charge...." 

What is truly true is that "love" is a much-abused word here (and elsewhere). 

Fact is, where the divine dimension is absent, love is mere carnal attraction. 
Bound to fail when the attraction dissipates, e.g. through familiarity, doubt, 
intervening other stronger and more powerful attractions such as career, birth 
relatives, other religions, choices foregone, opportunities missed.

We need to incorporate, first and foremost, God as the foundation-stone of all 
relationships, and adherence to his commandments, in times of peril as well as 
of power and pleasure, as a sine qua non of existence. 

Once you get the foundation firmly laid, you will realise that love is NOT a 
prostitute-taxi-driver relationship.  It is two loving hearts striving as one 
to reach that ultimate goal for which they were created, and for which they 
were joined in matrimony.

Whom God has joined, let no man put asunder.

S N

 On Wednesday, February 10, 2016 6:41 AM, "Arhata Osho arhataworldfreespeech@yahoo.co.uk [worldmalayaliclub]" <worldmalayaliclub@yahoogroups.com> wrote:

Couples from Hell

 February 8, 2016

Love is an opportunity for the highest energy waiting for you to accept and receive it! There is nothing finer than to see a couple truly both in love personal inner love, and with each other! To see your image in a river or pond is not the same as in a mirror. Likewise to find love in yourself, but to have no one to love, or love fully is like looking at yourself in a pond or flowing river.  It's not the deep clarity of seeing your outer image in a mirror nor to experience the bliss and joy within you that is your right. 

Typically if you have problems alone, and decide to bond with someone who also does, the problems becomes more apparent and magnified. Ironically, most couples with continuing problems in their coupling, put on their best face (mask) when meeting others disingenuously posing as something they are not. Of course, the benefit of that for those encountering them is that they don't have to share what's under cover! A good question for couples clinging to the 'myth of their undying love for each other', is you an example of a loving couple to show the world?

This is what is happening in your love-relationships: somebody is a prostitute, somebody is a taxi driver. It is a bargain, it is tit-for-tat. It is continuous conflict, and you are in charge at the best time in life to experience the best love has to offer! 

I read where in the earlier days, there was an interesting technique for catching monkeys. A huge jar with a narrow neck was used. Nuts were dropped into the narrow necked jar, in the presence of a monkey. A monkey trying to grab the nuts from the jar got caught, because its  fist clutching the nuts would get stuck in the narrow necked jar. Only if it dropped the nuts, would its hand be free and easy to remove from the jar. But the monkeys were too much attached to drop the nuts and free themselves; hence they were caught.

Is that you and your questionable love life? Are you also attached like this? Love doesn't need the attachment that most possess. Or worse yet, have you given up on love, or think you don't need it? Love is freedom, but with that freedom comes an involuntary 'responsibility' that is as natural as the tides of the ocean. No one particularly wants to live on an island or in a forest alone, even though that is sometimes a passing wish, the fear of loneliness is the shadow that follows unrequited love and the emotional, mental, physical and spiritual wounds that likely follow through ones life. 

The world is now set for the birthing of a NEW man and woman, in other words - a new couple of love and consciousness! All life is at it's best when in tune with the harmonious balance with nature, call it love. Let go and open your heart for unconditional love.